When Leila was still alive, I was approached by someone I hadn't spoken to in about 6 years. She wanted to let me know that she had been working on a document in Leila's name.
You may already be confused. I apologize. I don't know how to explain something of this magnitude. 
Okay. Let me start over and slow down.
So this woman that contacted me: we had met in high school through speech and debate. She was always very eloquent and focused, and VERY good at what she did.
It isn't surprising at all to me that she has pursued a career in politics. She currently works for the speaker of the house in Illinois. 
Okay, so now that I explained that part, let's move on to the document.
A resolution. She wrote a resolution concerning premature birth in honor of Leila. Those words don't do her words justice, so I will paste the resolution for you to read yourself. 
I hope as you read this, you feel what I felt. I felt purpose. I felt pride. I felt this overwhelming sense of "God's plan" shining through.
Maybe Leila's life was meant to inspire this very resolution. Maybe God is working through my long lost friend, and the state of Illinois, to spark something bigger.
It is my dearest wish that this resolution not only continue on in the state of Illinois, but that it can spread to other states to inspire the same conversation and improvement that is already happening in Illinois.
Thank you, to my friend, for letting Leila inspire you the way she inspired me. I hope you know how much this means to me, and so many other premie Mothers.
Please forgive the roughness of this copy. It was taken directly from the Illinois General Assembly website.
 
HR0094  LRB097 07105 GRL 48085 r
1               HOUSE RESOLUTION
 
2      WHEREAS, Premature birth is a serious and growing problem
3  that affects families from every walk of life and in every
4  corner of the country; and 
 
5      WHEREAS, 12.8%, or one of every eight, of all babies born
6  in the United States are born prematurely; and 
 
7      WHEREAS, Premature births have increased by 36% since the
8  early 1980s; and
 
9      WHEREAS, In the United States, prematurity/low birthweight
10  is the second leading cause of all infant deaths in the first
11  year of life and the leading cause of infant death among black
12  infants; and
 
13      WHEREAS, Premature babies who survive may suffer life-long
14  consequences, including cerebral palsy, mental retardation,
15  chronic lung disease, and vision and hearing loss; and 
 
16      WHEREAS, Preterm birth and low birth weight are a
17  significant financial burden in health care; and 
 
18      WHEREAS, The medical, educational, and lost of
19  productivity costs associated with preterm birth in the United
 
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1  States was at least $26 billion in 2005; and 
 
2      WHEREAS, Low birth weight, especially in conjunction with
3  environmental stress, is associated with the development of
4  diabetes and other chronic diseases later in life; and 
 
5      WHEREAS, It is a fact that pre-term infants are more likely
6  to have health problems that result in re-hospitalization; and 
 
7      WHEREAS, The causes of premature births are not fully
8  understood; and 
 
9      WHEREAS, The cause of approximately half of all preterm
10  births is completely unknown; and
 
11      WHEREAS, To reduce the rates of preterm labor and delivery,
12  more research and funding is needed on the underlying causes of
13  preterm delivery, the prevention of preterm birth so that
14  babies are born full-term, and treatments improving outcomes
15  for infants born prematurely; therefore, be it 
 
16      RESOLVED, BY THE HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES OF THE
17  NINETY-SEVENTH GENERAL ASSEMBLY OF THE STATE OF ILLINOIS, that
18  we recognize activities and programs that promote awareness of
19  and solutions to the dangers of premature birth across the
20  United States; and be it further 
 
 
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1      RESOLVED, That we designate the 16th of every month in 2011
2  as Premature Birth Prevention and Awareness Day in the State of
3  Illinois; and be it further
 
4      RESOLVED, That we encourage Congress to reauthorize the
5  PREEMIE Act, which is currently scheduled to expire at the end
6  of fiscal year 2011, to continue and enhance federal support
7  for research into the causes and prevention of premature birth
8  and to reduce infant mortality caused by prematurity; and be it
9  further
 
10      RESOLVED, That we dedicate this resolution to the memory of
11  Leilani Marie Decker and her courageous struggle; and be it
12  further
 
13      RESOLVED, That suitable copies of this resolution be
14  presented to the Governor, the Speaker and Minority Leader of
15  the Illinois House of Representatives, the President and
16  Minority Leader of the Illinois Senate, and the members of the
17  Illinois congressional delegation.
 
 
That's amazing that her name is actually IN the resolution! Hoping for your continued comfort and blessings,
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How amazing that this would be in memory of Leila!!
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for your loss. I wanted to pass along a blog of a mother who lost her 2 day old daughter in January- http://mymaddiegrace.blogspot.com/
I hope it will be an encouragement to you.
I love the pics on the Valentine post. Your husband and you are so cute together! And your little man is adorable.
May the pain lessen each day...and as I saw someone write- you are one day stronger each day...take it one day at a time!
That is wonderful!!!!! I will also pray this gets passed in all 50 states! Good job Illinois! I am so glad that Leila can help save other babies!
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